*After A While You Learn...............*

After a while you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul.

And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security.
And you begin to understand that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head held high and eyes opened,
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.

You learn to build your roads on today
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much,
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring your flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure,
That you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.

And you learn and learn....
With every goodbye comes the dawn.