Saturday, May 30, 2009

*ELEANOR DUSE* a fragrance by Laura Tonnato


Two flowers have near-mythical status in Italy: TuscanIris (Iris Florentina), to which Iris Nobile by Acqua di Parma pays homage, and Parma Violet, the very first flower to blossom as winter draws to a close. The emblem of the city of Parma, chosen by Marie-Louise of Austria, Napoleon’s second wife, violet was also the flower of predilection of the celebrated 19 th-century actress Eleanora Duse. A rival of Sarah Bernhardt, she was famous for her portrayals of the lyric works of writer Gabriele d’Annunzio, with whom she lived a great passion. At the request of the organizers of an exhibit dedicated to “la Divina” in Rome in 2005, Laura Tonatto created E.Duse, an olfactory interpretation of the great actress’s artistic and personal temperament.

Today I am wearing "Eleanora Duse" created by Laura Tonnato. It is a wet, moist violet picked from the black earthy moss in the forest and it is gorgeous! This fragrance has been discontinued and very difficult to find, but oh so beautiful..................

Saturday, May 23, 2009

*SOUNDS THAT BRING ME COMFORT*


At times, I like to sit quietly and just listen to the silence and enjoy it, a Zen moment if you will. Recently during my silence I began to think of sounds that bring me comfort:
*I remember as a young girl lying in a feather bed at my Grandmother's home in the country listening to the sound of the rain on her tin roof. I loved that.
*I think my favorite sound is the sound of the wind rustling through the leaves of trees, running through them happily and making the sound so pleasant.
*Violins....I adore violins, they convey passion so very well, more than any other musical instrument and are hauntingly beautiful. They can move me and make me cry......
*The ocean..........the tide coming in and returning. I used to leave my window open at night by the ocean and fall asleep and be comforted by this sound.
*The sound of thunder followed by hard, pouring down rain during Springtime. I adore it.....
*The sound of windchimes with a soft wind rustling through them.....
*The sound of an antique clock chiming, on the hour and half hour, an old clock with a soft chime.
*The sound of a kitten seeking it's mother, not having vision yet, but mewing for it's mother......
*My cats when they chatter at an insect or a bird or when they snore......
*The sound of a child's laughter, uncontrollable laughter, when they laugh so hard they can barely breathe........
*The sound of water being poured into a glass, the chink of ice cubes against the sides of the glass.
*The sound of high heels clacking on marble floors, I can remember my mother's doing that.
*Whales, the sound of them singing to each other......nothing more beautiful really.
*Forest sounds during the early evening, bull frogs, tree frogs, crickets, owls and all creatures of the night, it is mesmerizing.
*The sound of police sirens in Europe, I love that sound. They are not the same here....
*Rain or light sleet on a glass pane..........
*A train whistle late at night, off in the distance. This sound so reminds me of my grandmother and going to see her in my youth.
*Snow crunching under boots, or under tires, dry, cold snow..........
*The sound of seagulls at the seashore or mourning doves in the morning.......
*A lover's soft whispers during lovemaking...even if they aren't true.
*Canadian geese flying over my home in the early Spring and late Fall. I rush to the window to see them and they are the most gorgeous creation of nature.......

Sunday, April 26, 2009

*WHAT WILL HEAVEN SMELL LIKE?*



If I go by scripture, here’s some fragrances sure to be in heaven. (and this is just the beginning of a small study).

Sacred anointing oils, fragrant blends that are the work of a perfumer (who knows, that could be us, we may be able to learn the skill of a professional perfumer).

There will be spices and various blended perfumes.

There will be beautiful treatments prescribed for us, ie months with oil of myrrh and months with perfumes and cosmetics.

Beds will be perfumed with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.

Perfume in heaven will bring joy to the heart

The very name of God will be like perfume poured out

When we are seated at God’s table, OUR own perfume will spread its fragrance

Our love toward God will be more pleasing than wine, and the fragrance of our aroma will be more beautiful to God than any spice

Heaven will smell like beds of spice yielding perfume, and lilies dripping with myrrh.

There will be very expensive perfume in heaven

We will be preparing spices and perfumes

Milk and honey will be under your tongue.

The fragrance of your garments will be like that of the cedars of Lebanon

You will be able to climb the palm tree and take hold of its fruit,

Your aroma will be like the clusters of the vine, and the fragrance of your breath like apples.

Mandrakes will send out their fragrance, and at our door will be every delicacy, both new and old.

They will have been stored up for us.

The spendor of heaven will be like an olive tree, and its fragrance like the cedars of Lebanon

There will definitely be lilies of the valley, and the Rose of Sharon.

Because we know God, there will be a triumphal procession in God and through us spread everywhere will be the fragrance of the knowledge of Him

We will be to God an aroma.


Won't this be a wonderful place for us all?

Friday, April 03, 2009

*SECRETE DATURA* by Matre Parfumeur de Gantier


Not to give this perfume short shrift, but my post will be brief tonight. I must tell you, I feel as though I've hit some sort of scent jackpot this week--at least that's one way to look at it. Another way to look at it is discovering more perfumes to crowd my already overflowing wish list. I know that at times I still have all the unbridled enthusiasm of the perfume novice. I'm like the drunk person at a party who wants to hug everyone. But I have the gut feeling that this is real treasure, and my nose is not playing tricks. Secrete Datura has notes of leafy green, orange blossom, heliotrope, neroli, jasmine, hyacinth, ambergris, musk, vetiver, and cedar. sometimes when I find a scent that really wows me, I find myself at a loss for words. How can I describe my experience? I find this very close in spirit to Iris Poudre, although more powdery, softer, and slightly brighter in spirit because of the orange blossom and neroli. This scent is youthful without being young, soft as a cashmere sweater (yet works in the heat), and simply has an aromatically calming effect on me that I haven't found with other perfumes. I've remained calm, focused, and uncomplaining. I feel sure the deep beauty of Secrete Datura has something to do with this. Some perfumes just do that to one's psyche. Look at the gorgeous art deco bottle as well.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Welcome To Our Family, Allison McAllister


Yesterday, I visited my first grandchild, Deana Shar and her baby, my first great-grandchild. Her brother, David, lives with his fiance in New Orleans. David's wife was due to give birth to their first child on or around April 21st or so.
Allison McAllister decided to arrive on March 26th instead. This is 5 days from what would have been her grandmother, Leslie Susan's 46th birthday. Even though Leslie is now with God, I know she would love this little girl as much as she loves her first grandchild, Alyssa Nicole, the daughter of Deana and Bobby Jansen. She weighed in at 6 pounds, but what a bundle of joy she will be.
I have many different friends and acquaintances about my age who have no grandchildren or great-grandchildren, and that is such a loss to their lives. Being a grandmother, and even better, a great-grandmother is the best life role ever!
God gave us loving grandchildren and great-grandchildren as a reward for all of random acts of kindness. The thing about grandchildren is that they always accept us for ourselves, without rebuke or effort to change us, as no one in our entire life has done, not our parents, siblings, spouses, friends - and hardly ever our grown children. There is love on this planet Earth because grandparents are part of the equation. The following is a poem about great-grandmothers and I wear that badge proudly:
GREAT - GRANDMOTHERS
There is a special woman whose love has meant so much.
She blesses those around her with love and tender touch.
She's strong in faith and courage, yet gentle as a dove.
She as a special mission determined by God above.
He knew one day children would walk upon this land and
He needed a special woman to guide them by the hand.
She loved them every day until they each had grown,
And soon her little babies had babies of their own.
"Grandma" or Gee Gee or NaNa they now called her, a
Sound she loved to hear.
She spread her hugs and kisses to each grandchild so dear.
She tickled them and sang to them and dried their little tears
But soon those babies grew as the days turned into years.
God watched this special woman from His kingdom up above,
And though her hair had grayed, her eyes still shown with love.
"Her work is not complete yet" the angels heard Him say.
"I still have precious children that I must send her way."
So though she's not as young as she once used to be,
She still can bounce a baby upon her bended knee.
And though her loving arms are sometime tired and sore,
They'll never be too tired to hug a child she adores.
So as you can see, God's plan was very good.
He needed one to spread his love and he knew this woman would.
So in answering God's call, we learn it is never too late.
For loving God's own children are what made this Grandma GREAT!!
(a poem by Melissa Evans)
I could never overstate how important my grandmothers were in my life. They were a port in the storm when so much chaos existed; they constantly gave me hope, reassurance and a belief in myself and what I could do with my life. To live up to the example set by these two fine women would make my life complete, and believe me I am working on it with my grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
So welcome Allison, it is a guarantee that you will be loved!!

Monday, March 23, 2009

*APRES L'ONDEE* a gorgeous classic

There is something vintage-esque about violets and you can’t help but want to reminisce in their presence. Fortunately, Apres L’Ondee does not allow for protracted despondent reflection as the bergamot provides a green and uplifting opening and iris asserts itself at the heart with its floral edge. The vanilla base then keeps it smooth and sweet around those edges, so if you were about to cry over a broken memory, you’ve been given the softest pillow to lay your head. Apres L’Ondee is so lovely as you will read on many blogs, and as they say, it’s just heartbreakingly gorgeous. The name means "after the rain". Apres L'Ondee is one of the most gorgeous fragrances I have ever worn. I remember when I first sniffed it, I could imagine literally walking in the morning dew and sniffing the gorgeous violets and irises blooming near my bare feet. Very few fragrances can convey the beauty of this classic. I don't have a bottle now but I intend to own another in the very near future.

*LYRIC RAIN* fragrance by Strange Invisible Fragrances





Testament

Oh, let it be a night of lyric rain
And singing breezes, when my bell is tolled.
I have so loved the rain that I would hold
Last in my ears its friendly, dim refrain.
I shall lie cool and quiet, who have lain
Fevered, and watched the book of day unfold.
Death will not see me flinch; the heart is bold
That pain has made incapable of pain.
Kinder the busy worms than ever love;
It will be peace to lie there, empty-eyed,
My bed made secret by the leveling showers,
My breast replenishing the weeds above.
And you will say of me,
“Then has she died?Perhaps I should have sent a spray of flowers.”

Dorothy Parker
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I love the sound of rain, the smell of rain and fragrance. The above poem by Dorothy Parker captures it all. I can just imagine lying in bed on a warm summer night, hearing the comforting sound of rain falling on my roof and wearing a lovely fragrance. Strange Invisible Perfumes creates such magical and beautiful fragrances.

Monday, March 09, 2009

*MYRRHE ARDENTE* for a chilly Tundra morning


On a cool, windy Michigan morning, I have decided to comfort myself by wearing the lovely Myrrhe Ardente by Annick Goutal. It is described as follows:
Myrrhe Ardente (Perfervid Myrrh)Myrrhe Ardente is the most gourmand of scents and, to my nose, the most original too. It starts with an overdose of vanilla, which evokes vanilla ice cream then segues into a complex liquorish-y impression with a Maraschino (cherry liqueur) nuance and green herbal undertones. There is the coolness and oddness of aniseed on a woodsy leathery background.Natural myrrhe has a coldness and freshness about it and here the sensations have been reinforced with mentholated nuances. It also evokes wormwood and the drink derived from it, Absinthe. It is an interesting even captivating contrasted composition offering an unexpected soft green, slightly misty and medicinal character.The perfume through this association has a magical quality like going back in time to a 19th century Parisian café and smelling the absinthe-y breath of Verlaine half-stupefied before a glass of the green faerie. The café bar or comptoir shines in the shadowy light of a gloomy café. It smells now a little bit of dragée or sugar-coated almonds.It is a fascinating scent, difficult to place. The mind travels from a kahvehane or coffee house in Istanbul where Pierre Loti is smoking a shisha wearing babouches to a dingy café beloved by sublime drunks like Verlaine and Rimbaud. The scent becomes more powdery and feminine but is still infused with this strange oblique and mysterious aura. It smells a bit of hay.The perfume presents affinities with Serge Lutens Douce Amère, but it is completely different at the same time.
I remember the first sniff of Myrrhe Ardente. It is rare that I have an instant love with a fragrance, they usually have to grow on me, but not this one. I felt regal, as if I was wearing a dress of the softest satin with a lovely Pashmina cashmere stole around my shoulders, as I sipped warm buttered rum while sitting before a beautiful fire in my fireplace. This is a fragrance that I will love for a long time.

Friday, February 06, 2009

*SPRING FEVER* with a new fragrance


I sniffed the most gorgeous fragrance today, it reminds me of Spring:

Myrrhe & MerveillesEau de Parfumby Keiko Mecheri
The ScoopA fragrance of contemplation and utter stillness, Myrrhe & Merveilles is strength wrapped in softness. Cool toned and powdery at first, Myrrhe’s musk and white almond join in a softly reserved dance on the opening…but unlike many fragrances in this class, this surprising perfume turns down the powdery, sudsy notes as it develops and turns up the sweet, resinous notes of myrrh and a whiff of jasmine. Smooth and unusual, Myrrh always remains a tad aloof…regal without being pompous, Myrrhe & Merveilles’ chilly demeanor is nothing short of compelling and beguiling. Its notes may be written out, but they combine in a way that can never be obvious…a true study in the ability of a fine fragrance to bring you in and fully captivate you without playing the easy card (warm, gourmand notes). Stunning!
Myrrhe & Merveilles
Notes: myrrh, hesperides, jasmine, white almond, balsamic notes, powdery musk

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

*INAUGURATION DAY* a new beginning!!!

At last, new beginnings, new hope for this country!

I am stoked today, so happy to spend my whole day watching the inauguration of our 44th president, Barack Hussein Obama. I never thought I would see this in my lifetime.

The city of Washington, D.C. is literally overflowing with millions of citizens anxious to watch this important and long overdue event.

It makes my heart proud to see people of all colors, ethnicities, religion, old, young and infirm celebrating and smiling.

I was so worried about my country, the United States of America over the past several years.
We were hated by other countries; considered arrogant, self-absorbed and pampered with all of our required possessions. We had unlimited credit for everyone, huge houses, cars and possessions that could not be afforded. The selfish and greedy of our people took full advantage of this time and made off with vast sums of money. We raped other countries just for oil to run our cars. Over 4000 of our finest died in a war that they didn't create, invading a country that didn't need invading, overthrowing a terrorist that was blamed for 911 instead of hunting for the one responsible.

I don't recall a time in my aged life when I lived in a country that was so divided, people against people, state against state and political party against the opposite one.

Even though the times in our country are laden with debt, unemployment, lack of healthcare for millions, families just fighting to exist, to eat or provide a roof over the heads of their children, we have HOPE! We have pride in our chosen leader, and we once again have faith in the United States of American. Better days are on their way, we are united as a country, finally.................

Thursday, January 01, 2009

*PERFUME AND THE MEMORY OF WAR*


I started my New Year by reading blogs about perfume, of course! What better way...........here is a post that is beautiful and unforgettable from a young woman living in the Western United States:


"Perfume and the Memory of War -Erin Solaro

Having arrived (inevitably yet somewhat unexpectedly) on the high side of 40, and never having been a glamour queen, I've concluded that most makeup is a waste of time and money. The only exceptions are a few flattering lipstick shades, which will of course vary from woman to woman, and perfume.
For many of us, scent is powerfully linked to erotic memories: first kiss, first penetration, a particular lover or lover's gift or request. There are also other experiences, often less fondly remembered. Scent can trigger everything from afterglow to PTSD. For me, whenever I smell Prescriptives' fruity, mossy Calyx, I think of heavy armor. I was a freshly minted Army second lieutenant, wearing Calyx the first time I ever saw an M-1 tank move, and what a revelation that was: the perfect balance of mobility, armor and firepower.
And therein lies a larger connection.

Scent is, or should be, part of more than individual memory. Like wine, scent is part of cultural memory. And of historical memory. People sometimes have the opportunity to drink very old wine. Imagine pouring a vintage made from grapes picked by men who went off to die in the Great War, better known to us as World War I, and by the women who had no choice but to watch them go. Almost instinctively, we feel a bond. Almost instinctively, we want to drink to them.
Yet we do not think of perfume this way. Cultural memory is intellectual and bound up with the wars and other great events that have shaped Western civilization. Wine is part of culture, part of history, however tangential. Perfume is merely part of fashion. Fashion--couture--may be an important industry, but it is mainly associated with women and the men who dress them: a significant endeavor, sometimes of interest to historians, but hardly on a par with war and the memory of war. Or so we think. We know we drink to the long-ago dead but we rarely perfume ourselves in their honor.

I recently purchased off Ebay some old (at least 50 years) Chanel No. 5, still sealed. It was an unusual purchase. Back in the 80s, when I was studying tanks and poetry and kindred matters, I never liked Chanel No.5. I found it far too commercial, and far too subtle, compared to my favorite young woman's scents, such as Yves Saint Laurent's Opium and Calvin Klein's Obsession for Men, or for that matter Guerlain's Shalimar, which I still love. A few months ago, however, I tried Chanel No. 5 and liked it. Perhaps they've tweaked the composition; more likely, my tastes have evolved. Thus my purchase.

With scent like this, who needs makeup?

Please do not think of me as some educated nose who can intone, "Ahh, top notes of aldehydes and base notes of sandalwood, suffused throughout with jasmine" (which is in fact true of Chanel No. 5). I simply hold that Chanel No. 5 in parfum strength is a beautiful scent, drying down to some Platonic ideal of baby powder and the very softest kidskin, with, at least on my skin, just a hint of cool sweetness. I smell it and I connect to poetry. Not lovesong or commercial tripe, but lines from a Russian poet beloved since high school, a connection as unlikely, yet also as evocative, as smelling Calyx and thinking of tanks.

Rummaging in your black memory you findgloves up to the elbow,and the Petersburg night. And in the dark of the theater boxest hat stifling sweet smell. Wind from the gulf. And there between the lines, shunning the 'ahs' and the 'ohs,'Blok will smile at you contemptuously--the tragic tenor of the age.

If you love scent, two of the great houses are Guerlain and Caron. My introduction to Guerlain was Shalimar as a girl; my introduction to Caron as a woman was Nuit de Noel. Two very beautiful scents that I almost instinctively related to military history, as I have Guerlain's Djedi, which I have never smelled.

To smell the scents of the great perfume houses of Guerlain and Caron from say, 1910 all the way through the middle of the century, is to smell sorrow upon sorrow. Sometimes that sorrow is anticipated, in a perfume such as L'Heure Bleue, the blue hour of Parisian evenings. Sometimes it is as fresh as blood, as in N'Aimez Que Moi ("Love Only Me"). The poilus, French soldiers traveling such routes as the Voie Sacrée to Verdun, gave this scent to women they hoped would remain faithful to them. The women hoped that if they wore it and their lovers survived, they would return to them in a land more and more bereft of its young men. And sometimes that sorrow is remembered, as in Nuit de Noel, when the men who died should have been with their parents and sisters, the women they never married and the children they never raised. It is sorrow for the fair and the brave, ruined and broken and bereft before their time, the dead and their survivors.
Often the sorrow is for the young men slaughtered. Sometimes, as in Shalimar, it is for women. The scent is named after the Shalimar Gardens of Lahore, which Shah Jahan created for his wife, Mumtaz Mahal, who died giving birth to their thirteenth child. Until well into the 20th century, childbirth was to women what war was to men. With one exception. For men, war was an episodic horror. For women, it was routine decimation. Do the phrases strike you as odd? Isn't war supposed to be the routine decimation, childbirth the episodic horror? Think again. I did, after returning from Afghanistan in 2005 and discovering that, statistically, a modern Afghan woman has a greater chance of dying in childbirth than a World War II American infantryman did of dying in battle. How many of those men, I wonder, brought back French perfume for their women, or died with bottles in their packs, perhaps broken open by enemy fire.

Then there is Jacques Guerlain's masterpiece, Djedi, from 1927.

Djedi was the legendary magician of ancient Egypt. Pharaoh Khufu, the god-king, had brought Djedi to court to entertain his courtiers. Pharaoh wanted to see if Djedi could rejoin a severed human head to its body. Djedi said he could, and Pharaoh commanded a prisoner be brought in and decapitated for his amusement. But Djedi refused, saying, "Do not do this to a human being, my sovereign lord: surely it is not permitted to do such a thing to one of the noble herd of God." Pharaoh agreed and permitted Djedi to rejoin the head of a duck to its body instead.

For those who have been lucky enough to smell it, Djedi is the strangest perfume ever created, and often the most beautiful.

It opens with scents of stone and mineral. One might think of camel thorn bleaching in the desert sun, or smoke rising into the desert sky. Then it opens into rose and iris, vetiver and spice, beautiful and brief, before melding into leather and bitter herbs, and musk that is both animal and powdery and that to some people smells of roasting meat. One might, if one is so inclined, think of burning tanks and what happens to the crew inside, or of dead infantrymen. Indeed, some people note a scent of putrefaction, even of feces.

The overwhelming impressions of Djedi are of a regal beauty that is conquered by terrible grief, a beauty that does not stoop to weeping or pleading, but is broken to standing ruins like a shattered sword.

To name a perfume for women--wealthy, cultured, aristocratic women--after a mythical Egyptian magician who is remembered to us for upholding the human dignity of a condemned prisoner was the act of a great perfumer who understood that he was living in a civilization that had no serious defenders.

We live now as they did in 1912 (L'Heure Bleue) and 1922 (Nuit de Noel), or 1925 (Shalimar) and in 1927 (Djedi). We are living through the beginning of the ending of our world. Our civilization is slipping away, perhaps also towards some dreadful cataclysm. Everyone knows the catalogue of perils, from terrorism and climate change to lunatic wars and the lunatic debt that funds our wars. And how long can we pretend that reality will conform to our fantasies, so long as we keep up the pretense?

We talk now of failed states, but Europe of the first half of the 20th century was a failed continent, a failed civilization. And the great scents of those decades, the Guerlains and the Chanels and the Carons are suffused with mourning for that civilization, every bit as much as they were also suffused with, for example, the images of Jazz Age flappers daringly smoking in public, as Tabac Blond is.
When those of us who will survive the coming decades look back, what will be the scent we associate with these last ephemeral years?

Fantasy and Curious "by" Britney Spears, perhaps. And Heiress and Paris Hilton "by" Paris Hilton, perhaps also. Fruity, sweet, without staying power, "girly."
Unserious.
Unwomanly.
Uncivilized."
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What a way to start 2009!! But what a fragrant way.........we also have hope now with our new President, Barack Obama. This young lady has a very interesting and considered opinion on the world as well a very refined sense of smell......
HAPPY NEW YEAR

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

*EXPRESSO LOVE*


She gets the sun in the daytime...
Perfume in the dusk....
And she comes out in the night time
With the honeysuckle musk
Because she smells just like a rose
And she tastes just like a peach.
"Expresso Love" by Dire Straits

Sunday, December 28, 2008

*T I M E*


Time, sooner or later, is the one commodity we all run short of.......
I still find each day too short for.........
all the thoughts that I want to think about
all the walks that I want to take
all of the books that I want to read
all of the friends that I want to see.
Our time is too short...............
for pettiness
for angry words
for wounded feelings
for crushed souls.
Perhaps the measure of a life is not it's length, but it's love.

*THE BEAUTY OF WINTERTIME*


Snowflakes softly falling, coasting on the hills,
Children building snowmen, sharing winter thrills.
Skaters on the ice pond, dressed in outfits bright,
Lacy fir and pine trees - what a lovely sight.
Drifts along the roadside, frosted windowpanes,
Fence posts capped in ermine, lining country lanes.
Crystal brooks and streamlets, fairyland delight,
World of glistening beauty blanketed in white.
Purple shadows lengthening, moonlight on the snow,
Families snug and cozy 'mid the hearth fires' glow.
Fellowship and laughter, happiness sublime.
Many joys to cherish when it's wintertime.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

*MAY YOU NEVER BE TOO OLD*




























MAY I NEVER BE TOO OLD TO LOOK


TO THE SKIES ON CHRISTMAS EVE!!



SANTA AND HIS REINDEER JUST


MIGHT CROSS.....................


BLESSED ARE THOSE THAT STILL


BELIEVE..............................

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

*AUTUMN* she has arrived..............


Autumn is here, I can feel her, sense her, smell her. I always think of Autumn as a beautiful woman because of all of the colors, the gorgeous, rich and deep colors she brings in her wake.
I especially love the emerald greens that she is seeking to toss. Toss the leaves so that the snow can enter and lay it's soft, white bed of loveliness. One of my favorite sounds is the sound of the rustling wind through the emerald green leaves behind my home. I love that sound, the wind gently dancing, beckoning the leaves to fall to the ground. Those leaves are turning beautiful reds, oranges, golden as they fall to the ground, losing the richness of their emerald.
Rich, orange pumpkins are appearing everywhere in anticipation of Halloween and pumpkin pies. Farms north of me are making apple cider, rich golden apple cider. Lovely ruby apples are covered with caramel and nuts waiting for the first juicy bite to taste them. Families migrate to the cider mills on a weekend so that their children can taste the cider, eat the apples, pick them for pies to be made by Mom, maybe topped with a slice of cheese to enhance the taste.
I love Autumn, the smell of it, the smell of just a little coldness in the air in anticipation of the snowflakes to follow; the smell of burning leaves, so beautiful.
I love bringing out my pink and white flannel robe to cuddle in with a good book, a hot cup of tea, and one or more of my cats by my side. A feeling of serenity, peace and warmth envelope me on an evening that is becoming chilly.
I love the sound of the wind rushing through the leaves, and I love the sound of the dry leaves crunching when you walk upon them. I love the sound of a bonfire crackling, the sound of football teams calling out plays to each other. I love Autumn, it is now the time of my life as well................

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

*A LIVING LOVE*


BY: Martin Scot Kosins
If you ever love an animal, there are three days in your life you will always remember....The first is a day, blessed with happiness, when you bring home your young new friend. You may have spent weeks deciding on a breed. You may have asked numerous opinions of many vets, or done long research in finding a breeder. Or, perhaps in a fleeting moment, you may have just chosen that silly looking "stranger" in a shelter -- simply because something in his eyes reached your heart. But when you bring that chosen pet home, and watch it explore, and claim its special place in your hall or front room -- and when you feel it brush against you for the first time -- it instills a feeling of pure love you will carry with you through the many years to come.
The second day will occur eight or nine or ten years later. It will be a day like any other: routine and unexceptional. But, for a surprising instant, you will look at your longtime friend and see age where you once saw youth. You will see slow, deliberate steps where you once saw energy. And you will see sleep when you once saw activity. So you will begin to adjust your friend's diet -- and you may add a pill or two to her food. And you may feel a growing fear deep within yourself, which bodes of a coming emptiness. And you will feel this uneasy feeling, on and off, until the third day finally arrives.
And on this day -- if your friend and God have not decided for you, then you will be faced with making a decision of your own -- on behalf of your lifelong friend, and with the guidance of your own deepest Spirit. But whichever way your friend eventually leaves you, you will feel as alone as a single star in the dark night. If you are wise, you will let the tears flow as freely and as often as they must. And if you are typical, you will find that not many in your circle of family or friends will be able to understand your grief, or comfort you. But if you are true to the love of the pet you cherished through the many joy-filled years, you may find that a soul -- a bit smaller in size than your own -- seems to walk with you, at times, during the lonely days to come. And at moments when you least expect anything out of the ordinary to happen, you may feel something brush against your leg -- very, very lightly. And looking down at the place where your dear, perhaps dearest, friend used to lay -- you will remember those three significant days. The memory will most likely to be painful, and leave an ache in your heart... As time passes the ache will come and go as if it has a life of its own. You will both reject it and embrace it, and it may confuse you. If you reject it, it will depress you. If you embrace it, it will deepen you. Either way, it will still be an ache.But there will be, I assure you, a fourth day when -- along with the memory of your pet -- and piercing through the heaviness in your heart -- there will come a realization that belongs only to you. It will be as unique and strong as our relationship with each animal we have loved, and lost.
This realization takes the form of a Living Love. Like the heavenly scent of a rose that remains after the petals have wilted, this Love will remain and grow -- and be there for us to remember. It is a love we have earned. It is the legacy our pets leave us when they go. And it is a gift we may keep with us as long as we live.It is a Love which is ours alone. And until we ourselves leave -- perhaps to join our Beloved Pets -- it is a Love we will always possess.

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

*FOR PINKIE LA RUE*........The Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... Author unknown...


I love you Pinkie and I will so miss you, Your Cat Mother

*MICHAEL MOORE'S TAKE ON FINANCIAL CRISIS*

The Rich Are Staging a Coup This Morning ...a message from Michael Moore
Friends,
Let me cut to the chase. The biggest robbery in the history of this country is taking place as you read this. Though no guns are being used, 300 million hostages are being taken. Make no mistake about it: After stealing a half trillion dollars to line the pockets of their war-profiteering backers for the past five years, after lining the pockets of their fellow oilmen to the tune of over a hundred billion dollars in just the last two years, Bush and his cronies -- who must soon vacate the White House -- are looting the U.S. Treasury of every dollar they can grab. They are swiping as much of the silverware as they can on their way out the door.
No matter what they say, no matter how many scare words they use, they are up to their old tricks of creating fear and confusion in order to make and keep themselves and the upper one percent filthy rich. Just read the first four paragraphs of the lead story in last Monday's New York Times and you can see what the real deal is:
"Even as policy makers worked on details of a $700 billion bailout of the financial industry, Wall Street began looking for ways to profit from it. "Financial firms were lobbying to have all manner of troubled investments covered, not just those related to mortgages. "At the same time, investment firms were jockeying to oversee all the assets that Treasury plans to take off the books of financial institutions, a role that could earn them hundreds of millions of dollars a year in fees. "Nobody wants to be left out of Treasury's proposal to buy up bad assets of financial institutions."
Unbelievable. Wall Street and its backers created this mess and now they are going to clean up like bandits. Even Rudy Giuliani is lobbying for his firm to be hired (and paid) to "consult" in the bailout.
The problem is, nobody truly knows what this "collapse" is all about. Even Treasury Secretary Paulson admitted he doesn't know the exact amount that is needed (he just picked the $700 billion number out of his head!). The head of the congressional budget office said he can't figure it out nor can he explain it to anyone.
And yet, they are screeching about how the end is near! Panic! Recession! The Great Depression! Y2K! Bird flu! Killer bees! We must pass the bailout bill today!! The sky is falling! The sky is falling!
Falling for whom? NOTHING in this "bailout" package will lower the price of the gas you have to put in your car to get to work. NOTHING in this bill will protect you from losing your home. NOTHING in this bill will give you health insurance.
Health insurance? Mike, why are you bringing this up? What's this got to do with the Wall Street collapse?
It has everything to do with it. This so-called "collapse" was triggered by the massive defaulting and foreclosures going on with people's home mortgages. Do you know why so many Americans are losing their homes? To hear the Republicans describe it, it's because too many working class idiots were given mortgages that they really couldn't afford. Here's the truth: The number one cause of people declaring bankruptcy is because of medical bills. Let me state this simply: If we had had universal health coverage, this mortgage "crisis" may never have happened.
This bailout's mission is to protect the obscene amount of wealth that has been accumulated in the last eight years. It's to protect the top shareholders who own and control corporate America. It's to make sure their yachts and mansions and "way of life" go uninterrupted while the rest of America suffers and struggles to pay the bills. Let the rich suffer for once. Let them pay for the bailout. We are spending 400 million dollars a day on the war in Iraq. Let them end the war immediately and save us all another half-trillion dollars!
I have to stop writing this and you have to stop reading it. They are staging a financial coup this morning in our country. They are hoping Congress will act fast before they stop to think, before we have a chance to stop them ourselves. So stop reading this and do something -- NOW! Here's what you can do immediately:
1. Call or e-mail Senator Obama. Tell him he does not need to be sitting there trying to help prop up Bush and Cheney and the mess they've made. Tell him we know he has the smarts to slow this thing down and figure out what's the best route to take. Tell him the rich have to pay for whatever help is offered. Use the leverage we have now to insist on a moratorium on home foreclosures, to insist on a move to universal health coverage, and tell him that we the people need to be in charge of the economic decisions that affect our lives, not the barons of Wall Street.
2. Take to the streets. Participate in one of the hundreds of quickly-called demonstrations that are taking place all over the country (especially those near Wall Street and DC).
3. Call your Representative in Congress and your Senators. (click here to find their phone numbers). Tell them what you told Senator Obama.
When you screw up in life, there is hell to pay. Each and every one of you reading this knows that basic lesson and has paid the consequences of your actions at some point. In this great democracy, we cannot let there be one set of rules for the vast majority of hard-working citizens, and another set of rules for the elite, who, when they screw up, are handed one more gift on a silver platter. No more! Not again!
Yours, Michael Moore

Saturday, September 27, 2008

*THE MEMORIAL WALL*


*THE MEMORIAL WALL*

The following is a post written by one of my nurse friends from California & posted on our nursing message board:


When I was 19 years old, and in nursing school, there was a group that sent packages to the troops. You see, they were the same age as me. My mom and I would go shopping for the things on the list, Gum, nonperishable candy, it was too hot there for chocolate, cookies, they loved home made cookies. The list goes on, but you get the idea.

I became pen pals with a young Marine, a Sergeant and the leader of his group of men, he was from Texas and 24 years old. After that, I began sending the packages directly to him and his men. It became fun to pick things out that they really needed. Socks were very important to them.

I wrote to him and he wrote to me every few weeks. I saved the letters he wrote. He had been to San Diego, so he knew the area. So we had a little something in common.

He would tell me about his men and how hard it was to write the parents of those who didn't make it.

One thing that he wrote me one time, was that, all of his men wrote Cindy on the inside of their helmets. They felt it was good luck to put my name there. I was so flattered.

Then, I didn't get a letter for a long time. I was so worried. Then finally, a letter came. He had been wounded and was in Hawaii. He said he was going to get better and when he did, he was going to go home.

I never heard from him again. I didn't know if he lived or died.

I went to the Wall 5 years ago. I had saved every letter he wrote me. All these years I kept them save in my dresser. I would take them out every once in a while to read them. They were very special to me. I took them with me when I went to the Wall.

I went here to look for his name. It wasn't there. I was so relieved. But I wanted to leave the letters there. A park ranger told me there is a huge room some where in DC and they take every thing that people leave there to the room for storage and some day, there will be a museum, and they will fill it with the memories that people leave there.

I asked the ranger if my letters would be safe if I left them there, she said yes, that every night they take all the memories to the storage area and every day, the new memories start.

I put the letters in a plastic zip bag and set them by the Wall. Then I cried and cried and cried some more. Just as I sit here right now crying at the thought that 53,000 brave men and women dying in that horrible place called Viet Nam.

How could we as a country allow something like that happen? For what? And how could we allow it to happen again? Where will the next Wall be? The Mall in Washington DC is almost full of war memorials. There isn't too much space left for any more.

Yes, I am a liberal democrat and proud of it. That doesn't make me, or any other liberal less a patriot than anybody else. I believe there just has to be a reason to allow so many people to die, and I don't believe this war is the right reason and nobody will convince me other wise.

Friday, September 26, 2008

*OBAMA DID NOT BLINK: MC CAIN DID = DEBATES TONITE!

Finally, the Presidential debates are being broadcast and America can see where our candidates stand. For a great deal of time, I felt that the Republican Grandstander who feels he is "Mighty Mouse", out to save the day, would not attend due to his 'solving the financial crisis' in Washington. But, Mighty Mouse did not save the day, he flew into Washington and did nothing but muck up a near-pending agreement.
I cannot abide Grandstanding and Political photo ops by any candidate! I was so impressed by Barack Obama's coolness with all of the drama being spread around.
I think tonite will very well show the weaknesses and lack of preparedness that Senator McCain has for this job. He obviously cannot multitask, that's a given.............

*STEP UP AND CAMPAIGN, HILLARY!!!*


I have long been an avid supporter not only of the Democratic party, but of Bill and Hillary Clinton. Lately, I have seen little effort from either of them to assist their party in winning this election and I am disappointed. We are about 50 days from the election of our next President, and this is the most crucial election for America in a very long time. I read the Huffington Post as well as many other news blogs faithfully and this article was particularly interesting:In accepting her role as John McCain's running mate, Sarah Palin, made an unabashed appeal to Hillary Clinton supporters and, in one of the greatest displays of chutzpah in recent political memory, offered to carry the baton that final yard for her to smash the glass ceiling. Women, and people who care about women, should be afraid of this Republican ticket. They should be affronted by the Republican's appeal for support to the very people whom they sees to harm. And they should look to Hillary Clinton to make clear the distinctions between herself and the Sarah Palins of the world. John McCain and Sarah Palin are people who can be counted on to repair any cracks in the glass ceiling made by Hillary and countless others, and roll back progress made by and for women over the past half century. Hillary is in a unique position to point out that this Republican ticket proposes to pack the Supreme Court with radical conservative judges, take away a woman's right to chose, blur the line between Church and State, jeopardize Social Security, and cut social programs whose beneficiaries are primarily women and children.Yet, following the announcement of Palin as the VP nominee, Hillary Clinton released the following tepid statement: "We should all be proud of Governor Sarah Palin's historic nomination, and I congratulate her and Senator McCain. While their policies would take America in the wrong direction, Governor Palin will add an important new voice to the debate."During the debates against Barack Obama, a man with whom she voted approximately 90% of the time in Congress and with whom she shares a basic set of values, beliefs and core political principles, Clinton did not hold back her pointed criticisms of the man she hoped to defeat. It is now time for her to unleash her oratory power and, in this case, well-deserved indignation, against John McCain and his choice for vice president.John McCain and Sarah Palin are the antithesis of everything that both Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton stand for, and everything that Hillary Clinton has fought for during her political career. I have been an Obama supporter from the start, but I always knew that, if Hillary turned out to be the nominee, the Supreme Court would be safe from justices who would seek to prevent women from maintaining control over their own bodies and reproductive decisions. I knew that the fight for healthcare, education, social security, and support for our nation's veterans would be in capable and concerned hands. And, I had the comfort of knowing that the unilateralism that has been the hallmark of the Bush foreign policy would come to an end and that we would once again reach out to our allies. These are the common causes that should spur Hillary on to step forward and make the difference she clearly can in shifting the tone and substance of the media coverage of this campaign. As a woman who has become a feminist icon with serious track record on issues relating to women and children, she is needed at the front lines, a place where she told us during the primaries she has always been.Hillary was much praised for her speech at the democratic convention, but her relative silence now can only lead Democratic voters to wonder whether she is in this for the Democrats or for herself. If McCain's reckless ploy actually works and disaffected Clinton supporters vote to put oldest president and the least qualified vice president in American history in office, Hillary might have succeeded in proving that the Democratic party needed her more than it thought it did. And her legacy might very well end up being the first woman in the White House -- just not one who advances the cause of women. Hillary Clinton's silence could very well contribute to the election of John McCain, and to a President Palin who appoints a Supreme Court that overturns Roe v. Wade.Hillary commands an audience when she speaks. And Sarah Palin has given her a veritable invitation to respond to and attack the McCain-Palin ticket for the devastating effect its policies would have on women and children. Hillary has it in her power to draw the cameras of CNN and FOX's. She has the opportunity to use her influence and unique position in this campaign to get the media to run and re-run speeches conveying her outrage over Republican lies and her exhortation to women voters to support the Democratic ticket. If Hillary Clinton was serious when she said that this election is not about her, but about the issues, then she needs to lend her voice, loud and clear, to help pop the Palin balloon with one of the shards of that glass ceiling that she can legitimately claim to have cracked. She needs to take the spotlight away from John McCain and Sarah Palin and focus it back on the issues that matter to her and to the American people.**I began as a Hillary supporter, but when she was not nominated I was loyal to Senator Obama. Hillary, get off your butt and campaign!!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

*Sarah Palin: A Trojan Moose for the GOP*




Today is the anniversary of the horrible 9/11/01 and a day to remember what our country experienced on that day.

We need to focus on issues, not personalities to bring our country back to it's former greatness!

Thanks also to our troops, let's bring them home from the godforsaken Iraq to be with their families and not be re-deployed.

Let's force our candidates to focus on our real issues such as healthcare, foreclosures, the economy, the price of gas, the homeless, the failure of our government to deal with mental illness, the homeless, many issues.

Here is an interesting post from Huffington Posts' blog:


Did Sarah Palin wrongfully push to have her ex-brother-in law fired? Was she really against the "Bridge to Nowhere?" Did she really sell Alaska's plane on eBay, or just list it on eBay? Did she actually have any substantial duties commanding the Alaska National Guard?
The correct answer to all these questions is: who cares? Which isn't to say these aren't valid questions, or that Palin and the McCain camp aren't playing it fast, loose, and coy with each of them. The point is that Palin, and the circus she's brought to town, are simply a bountiful collection of small lies deliberately designed to distract the country from one big truth: the havoc that George Bush and the Republican Party have wrought, and that John McCain is committed to continuing.
Every second of this campaign not spent talking about the Republican Party's record, and John McCain's role in that record, is a victory for John McCain.
Her critics like to say that Palin hasn't accomplished anything. I disagree: in the space of ten days she's succeeded in distracting the entire country from the horrific Bush record -- and McCain's complicity in it. My friends, that's accomplishment we can believe in.
Just look at the problem John McCain faced. George Bush has a disastrous record, and the country knows it. John McCain -- the current one, not the one who vanished eight years ago -- has no major disagreements with George Bush (and I'm sorry, wanting to fire Donald Rumsfeld a bit sooner doesn't qualify) and wants to continue his incredibly unpopular policies for another four years. The solution? Enter Sarah Palin, a Trojan Moose carrying four more years of disaster.
And the plan has worked beautifully. Just look at what's being discussed just 57 days before the election. Is it the highest unemployment rate in five years? The bailout of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac? The suicide bombing yesterday in Iraq that killed six people and wounded 54 -- in the same market where last month a bomb killed 28 people and wounded 72? That the political reconciliation that was supposedly the point of "the surge" is nowhere near happening? That Iraq's Shiite government is now rounding up the American-backed Sunni leaders of the Awakening? That the reason 8,000 soldiers may be leaving Iraq soon is so more can be deployed to Afghanistan where the Taliban is steadily retaking the country?
No. We're talking about whether Sarah Palin was or was not a good mayor, whether she was or was not a good mother, whether her skirts are too short and her zingers too sarcastic.
Contrary to what we're hearing 24/7 in the media, the next few weeks are not a test of Sarah Palin. The next few weeks are a test of Barack Obama.
He needs to dramatically redirect this election back to a discussion over the issues that really matter -- the issues that will impact the future of this country. A presidential campaign is a battle and this is the time for Obama to show some commander-in-chief skills. I'm not talking about calling Palin out for lying about his record and demeaning community organizing. I'm talking about grabbing the political debate by the throat. The country is already angry about what's happened over the last seven-plus years -- he shouldn't be afraid to give voice to that anger. Obama has spent years adopting a non-threatening persona; but he can't let his fear that appearing like an "angry Black man" (a stereotype not-too-subtly fueled by Fox News) will turn off swing voters keep him from channeling the disgust and outrage felt by so many voters --swing and otherwise.
McCain's team, in an effort to distract, is going to keep doing what they're doing -- diverting voters and the media with a tantalizing combination of personal trivia and small lies. It doesn't matter if they're caught in them -- in fact, all the better. Because they know there is no way in hell they can win if this election is about the big truth of the Bush years.
McCain's real running mate is George Bush and the failed policies of the Republican Party. Even if they are dressed up in a skirt, lipstick, and Tina Fey glasses.







Tuesday, September 09, 2008

*WHY WOMEN NEED TO VOTE*


WHY WOMEN SHOULD VOTE !

This is the story of our Grandmothers and Great-grandmothers; they lived only 90 years ago. Remember, it was not until 1920 that women were granted the right to go to the polls and vote.
The women were innocent and defenseless, but they were jailed nonetheless for picketing the White House, carrying signs asking for the vote. And by the end of the night, they were barely alive. Forty prison guards wielding clubs and their warden's blessing went on a rampage against the 33 women wrongly convicted of 'obstructing sidewalk traffic.'

They beat Lucy Burns, chained her hands to the cell bars above her head and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping for air.

They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her head against an iron bed and knocked her out cold. Her cellmate, Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead and suffered a heart attack. Additional affidavits describe the guards grabbing, dragging, beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting and kicking the women.Thus unfolded the 'Night of Terror' on Nov. 15, 1917, when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his guards to teach a lesson to the suffragists imprisoned there because they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson's White House for the right to vote. For weeks, the women's only water came from an open pail. Their food--all of it colorless slop--was infested with worms. (Alice Paul) When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat and poured liquid into her until she vomited. She was tortured like this for weeks until word was smuggled out to the press. http://memory.loc.gov/ammem/collections/suffrage/nwp/prisoners.pdf

So, refresh my memory. Some women won't vote this year because- -why, exactly? We have carpool duties? We have to get to work? Our vote doesn't matter? It's raining?Last week, I went to a sparsely attended screening of HBO's new movie 'Iron Jawed Angels.' It is a graphic depiction of the battle these women waged so that I could pull the curtain at the polling booth and have my say.

All these years later, voter registration is still my passion. My friend is my age and studied women's history, saw the HBO movie, too. When she stopped by to talk about it, she looked angry. She was--with herself. 'One thought kept coming back to me as I watched that movie,' she said. 'What would those women think of the way I use, or don't use, my right to vote?

All of us take it for granted now, not just younger women, but those of us who did seek to learn.' The right to vote, she said, had become valuable to her 'all over again.'HBO released the movie on video and DVD . I wish all history, social studies and government teachers would include the movie in their curriculum I want it shown on Bunco night, too, and anywhere else women gather. I realize this isn't our usual idea of socializing, but we are not voting in the numbers that we should be, and I think a little shock therapy is in order.It is jarring to watch Woodrow Wilson and his cronies try to persuade a psychiatrist to declare Alice Paul insane so that she could be permanently institutionalized. And it is inspiring to watch the doctor refuse. Alice Paul was strong, he said, and brave. That didn't make her crazy.The doctor admonished the men: 'Courage in women is often mistaken for insanity.'

Please, if you are so inclined, pass this on to all the women you know. We need to get out and vote and use this right that was fought so hard for by these very courageous women. Whether you vote democratic, republican or independent party - remember to vote.History is being made.

*SARAH PALIN* My views on the GOP choice......

My faithful blog readers just knew that I would have to have an opinion on the GOP's selection of a running mate for John McCain.
When the choice was first announced, I must say that I was shocked. Sarah Palin is a female that most voters have little or no knowledge of. Then, as I watched things unfold, at first I was surprised at the choice and then I began to see the reality of why this choice was actually made.
I would like to list as part of my blog on this event an opinion by Gloria Steinem:
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"Palin: wrong woman, wrong message

Sarah Palin shares nothing but a chromosome with Hillary Clinton. She is Phyllis Schlafly, only younger.By Gloria SteinemSeptember 4, 2008Here's the good news: Women have become so politically powerful that even the anti-feminist right wing -- the folks with a headlock on the Republican Party -- are trying to appease the gender gap with a first-ever female vice president. We owe this to women -- and to many men too -- who have picketed, gone on hunger strikes or confronted violence at the polls so women can vote. We owe it to Shirley Chisholm, who first took the "white-male-only" sign off the White House, and to Hillary Rodham Clinton, who hung in there through ridicule and misogyny to win 18 million votes.But here is even better news: It won't work. This isn't the first time a boss has picked an unqualified woman just because she agrees with him and opposes everything most other women want and need. Feminism has never been about getting a job for one woman. It's about making life more fair for women everywhere. It's not about a piece of the existing pie; there are too many of us for that. It's about baking a new pie.Selecting Sarah Palin, who was touted all summer by Rush Limbaugh, is no way to attract most women, including die-hard Clinton supporters. Palin shares nothing but a chromosome with Clinton. Her down-home, divisive and deceptive speech did nothing to cosmeticize a Republican convention that has more than twice as many male delegates as female, a presidential candidate who is owned and operated by the right wing and a platform that opposes pretty much everything Clinton's candidacy stood for -- and that Barack Obama's still does. To vote in protest for McCain/Palin would be like saying, "Somebody stole my shoes, so I'll amputate my legs."This is not to beat up on Palin. I defend her right to be wrong, even on issues that matter most to me. I regret that people say she can't do the job because she has children in need of care, especially if they wouldn't say the same about a father. I get no pleasure from imagining her in the spotlight on national and foreign policy issues about which she has zero background, with one month to learn to compete with Sen. Joe Biden's 37 years' experience.Palin has been honest about what she doesn't know. When asked last month about the vice presidency, she said, "I still can't answer that question until someone answers for me: What is it exactly that the VP does every day?" When asked about Iraq, she said, "I haven't really focused much on the war in Iraq."She was elected governor largely because the incumbent was unpopular, and she's won over Alaskans mostly by using unprecedented oil wealth to give a $1,200 rebate to every resident. Now she is being praised by McCain's campaign as a tax cutter, despite the fact that Alaska has no state income or sales tax. Perhaps McCain has opposed affirmative action for so long that he doesn't know it's about inviting more people to meet standards, not lowering them. Or perhaps McCain is following the Bush administration habit, as in the Justice Department, of putting a job candidate's views on "God, guns and gays" ahead of competence. The difference is that McCain is filling a job one 72-year-old heartbeat away from the presidency.So let's be clear: The culprit is John McCain. He may have chosen Palin out of change-envy, or a belief that women can't tell the difference between form and content, but the main motive was to please right-wing ideologues; the same ones who nixed anyone who is now or ever has been a supporter of reproductive freedom. If that were not the case, McCain could have chosen a woman who knows what a vice president does and who has thought about Iraq; someone like Texas Sen. Kay Bailey Hutchison or Sen. Olympia Snowe of Maine. McCain could have taken a baby step away from right-wing patriarchs who determine his actions, right down to opposing the Violence Against Women Act.Palin's value to those patriarchs is clear: She opposes just about every issue that women support by a majority or plurality. She believes that creationism should be taught in public schools but disbelieves global warming; she opposes gun control but supports government control of women's wombs; she opposes stem cell research but approves "abstinence-only" programs, which increase unwanted births, sexually transmitted diseases and abortions; she tried to use taxpayers' millions for a state program to shoot wolves from the air but didn't spend enough money to fix a state school system with the lowest high-school graduation rate in the nation; she runs with a candidate who opposes the Fair Pay Act but supports $500 million in subsidies for a natural gas pipeline across Alaska; she supports drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife Reserve, though even McCain has opted for the lesser evil of offshore drilling. She is Phyllis Schlafly, only younger.I don't doubt her sincerity. As a lifetime member of the National Rifle Assn., she doesn't just support killing animals from helicopters, she does it herself. She doesn't just talk about increasing the use of fossil fuels but puts a coal-burning power plant in her own small town. She doesn't just echo McCain's pledge to criminalize abortion by overturning Roe vs. Wade, she says that if one of her daughters were impregnated by rape or incest, she should bear the child. She not only opposes reproductive freedom as a human right but implies that it dictates abortion, without saying that it also protects the right to have a child.So far, the major new McCain supporter that Palin has attracted is James Dobson of Focus on the Family. Of course, for Dobson, "women are merely waiting for their husbands to assume leadership," so he may be voting for Palin's husband.Being a hope-a-holic, however, I can see two long-term bipartisan gains from this contest.Republicans may learn they can't appeal to right-wing patriarchs and most women at the same time. A loss in November could cause the centrist majority of Republicans to take back their party, which was the first to support the Equal Rights Amendment and should be the last to want to invite government into the wombs of women.And American women, who suffer more because of having two full-time jobs than from any other single injustice, finally have support on a national stage from male leaders who know that women can't be equal outside the home until men are equal in it. Barack Obama and Joe Biden are campaigning on their belief that men should be, can be and want to be at home for their children.This could be huge."
Gloria Steinem is an author, feminist organizer and co-founder of the Women's Media Center. She supported Hillary Clinton and is now supporting Barack Obama."
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This sums it up pretty well for me. Sarah Palin is deluding herself if she thinks for one minute that John McCain is interested in her thoughts, views or opinions on anything. He is using her as a tool to win the election. I find it insulting to women as a whole to think that just because a woman is put on the ticket that one would vote for her. We do have minds! We want answers on education, health care, women's rights, the economy. I don't care that Sarah can shoot a rifle, bring down a moose or caribou, field dress it, bring it home and make it into stew. It also concerns me that she has an infant with very special needs, young children, and a very young daughter who will soon make her a grandmother; are they to suffer the loss of a mother while she is in Washington helping run the huge tasks of our country? Maybe they could be raised by a nanny? I am all for women, strong women in fact, as I attempted to show with my quote of Ms. Gloria Steinem, the all-time feminist, but Sarah Palin, I think not! She is only a tool used by a very clever Republican party in an attempt to win an election, nothing more.

Monday, August 11, 2008

*TRUE FRIENDS*


In a friendship

We're free to expose,

Parts of ourselves

Nobody else knows

But the thing that sustains it

And sets it apart
Is not something spoken

It's a bond of the heart

True friend's are rare

In a lifetime two or three,

I'm so glad it happened...

Between you and me!


I said goodbye to my best friend today.......Her name was Judy and we were friends for many years. I am glad that she was part of my life and that I was part of hers. I am glad that she no longer suffers and that she is in a better place. I will miss you, sweet girl...............