*Being My Authentic Self*

As little children, we are truly innocents and we live authentically, seldom afraid or embarrased to seek out what we want or speak our minds. I so love the innocence of children, they are born that way. It is such a precious quality lost way too quickly. As we grow older, we tend to tuck the authenticity away, putting it aside while we chase our dreams, afraid that it might hinder us in our goal of success. But somehow, we never let the freedom completely go. We most likely conform to society while embracing secret passions when alone. We sometimes withhold certain opinions, even though it doesn't change the fact that we possess them. I believe that this is so important not to stray too far from that youthful brashness and self-interest for they are qualities that make you who you are.
Many people quickly forget this in their effort to please or to fit in. The authentic you is your 'true self' and by living authentically, you live your truth, making time for the things that you love and, in essence, projecting who you really are. The best way to live your truth is to leave the expectations of others behind and to live the way you feel most worthwhile.

As I grow older, I actually feel that it takes being selfish in a healthy way to do what you know is best for you, regardless of the opinions of others, and sometimes even the opinions of friends and family. Living your truth and living authentically means that you make choices without fear, trusting your soul's wisdom. If you value personal pursuits, don't feel forced into a certain job just to make enough money to keep up with the neighbors. Conversely, if you prize success in business, don't let other's perception of what is right for you hold you back either. Denying your unique truth, there are no promises, everything you do will reflect who you are.

If you are not sure of what your authentic or true self is, look inward and ask yourself what your purpose, values and needs are. Honor your strengths and don't let yourself be guided by what others expect of you.

Finally, but most important of all, discover what your passions are by trying new things and sticking with the things that stir your soul. Finding out who you really are and then making that choice to embrace your dreams and desires will take your life in the the direction that is both satisfying and meaningful.